You have the right to participate.
This policy helps to define respect for boundaries – yours and others. Establishing boundaries requires conditions for participation. Example: at DoveStar, under casual circumstances, an open door means anyone can enter and join in. If privacy is required, the door will be closed. A closed door means do not disturb, either by entering or knocking. Remember, however, that respect is a two-way street. If you choose to participate, then you must respect the rules of participation. Example: refusal to participate in the subject matter of a class can cause failure of class credit.

You have the right to say “No”.
When saying “no”, state that you are unwilling to provide whatever is asked for. This works both ways. When asking for something and being refused, accept refusal graciously and do not take it personally.

You have the right to ask for what you need.
You have the right to ask, but again, if the person you ask cannot give it to you, be gracious, don’t take it personally. You can always ask someone else until you find someone able to comply.

You have the right to express your feelings.
Expressing your feelings means stating what you feel and believe relative to yourself. Respect requires that we release judgment of ourselves and others. Allow others to express their feelings without taking it personally.

Don’t make yourself or anyone else wrong.
Honor your own choices while respecting and validating those of others without being influenced by them.

Help to create a safe atmosphere.
DoveStar is dedicated to personal healing and self growth. Part of that intent is to allow individuals to express their feelings and belief. Another aspect is respect for privacy, yours and all others.